Samantha, age 20, a very comfortable size 18 wedding dress, and sitting at an extra fabulous 235 pounds.
Ironically in high school, I weighted about 80 pounds less, but I was so self conscious that it’d didn’t occur to me how much weight I had actually gained until I found some of my old jeans in a size 9. I honestly thought I had been loosing weight since then, but in reality I was gaining some wicked confidence and my ‘I don’t give a fuck’ attitude that has really helped me to become a much more realistic and happy person than I was.
People will think you are stupid. People will think are disgusting, and fat, and ugly, and you know what? To them, you are. But to others, you will look like a goddess, like I do to my future husband. Everytime you get down because people aren’t seeing you the way you want them to, think about the last time you judged someone. We all do it, and the real test of our confidence and maturity is to take their opinions as just that, their opinions, and to not allow it to change YOUR opinion of YOURSELF. To me, ladies, you are all sexy foxes and beautiful people! There are so many people in your world who would agree with me, and you know it!
I think I am fucking rad, my dress is amazing and it fit like a glove, my husband is a fucking baller, and you know what else?
You ladies are all some of the sweetest little buttons in the drawer. Keep falling in love with yourselves, it is probably the best thing ever you can do! Love you ladies!
:) This is me.
